Better online dating
If you are online dating or you would like to start, I highly recommend focusing on your mindset before you enter these waters.It could be the difference between an enjoyable and successful experience, and one you’d rather forget.For all the talk about “The End of Men” and how gender roles have been obliterated and women can write to men first, blahblahblah, here’s what ACTUALLY happened after four months:• The women as a group received over 20 times more messages than the men.• The two most attractive women received 83% of all messages.• The two most attractive women probably would have received several thousand more if their inboxes hadn’t have reached maximum capacity.• It took 2 months, 13 days for the most popular woman’s inbox to fill up.At the current rate it would take the most popular man 2.3 years to fill up his. Well, you’ve seen this a few times before:“Most men compliment the attractive women a lot, they make reference to something in the woman’s profile (you would not believe how many times men mentioned the party tricks and ‘Arrow’ the cheetah from the generic profile I wrote), or they ask a general question about travel or something equally boring.”What SHOULD he write instead?[image: via shutterstock] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?Register with Meet Mindful for free today—the fastest growing dating site for conscious singles.In case it’s not obvious: Demonstrate creativity, intelligence and a great sense of humour• Be totally different to anything she may have received before • Be obviously unique and not a cut-and-paste job • Show that I’ve read her profile and absorbed facts about her • Not be needy!
Be patient, write a better profile, and learn not to get so frustrated with men, and you can enjoy online dating a lot more.Every man and woman online still has criteria that must be met by people who want to date him or her, and every guy and girl is still in direct competition with every other person of their gender…Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.”This is the double-edged sword of online dating.Learning to believe it is an important part of the process too.-Franz Kafka I hope you were able to find yourself a new, fun and optimistic thought to replace the one invisibly standing in your path to love and romance.