Dating a newly divorced person
I met the POF guy shortly after Thanksgiving and had a wonderful cozy holiday with him.
By April we were in Key West together with the coconut umbrella drinks.
My psychiatrist encouraged me to go on POF because it was free, and a cast of millions.
I just couldn’t get it right, even after trying 3-4 times.
It’s their way of testing boundaries to see if you’ll cave in. I was looking to talk to 30-40 year old, and he was 41 but I did not want to be rude and say no. I seen some of his stuff and this so sounds like him check ou the bust a cheaters website his ex and others have bene posting on him. – Both porn addicts, one into photoshopped still images of women who were beyond out of his league, the other into some disgusting daddy dom crap where he liked pictures of women sucking on lolipops saying things like “practicing for daddy.” – Both compulsive and chronic liars, omg, lying about literally everything just to keep extending the ride.
Within a year I read his answers to some question(I know I should have read them much earlier lol) because some of our values were the complete opposite. He is on so many dating sites like Tinder, POF and OKcupid, Craigslist personals, idating and so many others. They pretended to be into things I was into, pretended to agree with me even though my intuition caught that they were pretending.
A few weeks later he discarded me just at the point he knew I was gearing up to go on job interviews.
Three years later I’m off the sites because I’ve found real love, but a few of my current best friends are men I met on these sites.They will set up a certain image for themselves in a dating profile and then try to lure you in by letting you think theres a lot more than there is to them and then making you think you have so much in common — the covert maggoty ones anyway. pedestal; too cool for everyone, oh but you, you are lucky enough to have him, eh?Reply I am sorry that you went through this, particularly in the wake of a break up.–The key to success really seems to be to practice self-validation and go out in the real world, attend meet-up group events, and be very attentive to the people around you in every day situations. I am grateful for Kim’s transparent description of Tinder and POF, no need to waste my own time or recommend it to anyone, thank you much! Wishing you the best, Kim Reply When I finally looked to see if the ex narcopath had dating profiles I found some where around ten on various dating/hook up/swinger sites. My tip to anyone newly dating someone is to do a Google search on their phone number. Both only lasted about 5 months and were absolute train wrecks.The ex had his number posted on nearly all of the profiles I found. Both narcissists, lying, cheating manipulative jerks. The opening of this post made me laugh and shake my head.