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I think some men hold back telling a woman she is beautiful (or pretty or sexy) because they don’t want to come across as fawning, smarmy, unctuous or gushy.He doesn’t want a woman to think he has fallen for her based only on her looks, so then can be led around by his nose.But if he tells you sincerely and regularly, somehow it makes more attractive too!And, of course, the more beautiful a person is on the inside, as shown through his thoughtfulness, kindness, caring, respect and attention toward you and others, his outer looks become more appealing.And women think that someone wants something from them if you compliment their looks.So I find it best to not tell women they are beautiful, pretty or sexy.” Can you imagine?
So what about those of us who aren’t classically beautiful?
When some women know a man is ga-ga for her, they use it to manipulate him. And of course, men can use these compliments as a “line” to get closer to you.
As I discussed in “He had me from ‘You’re gorgeous!
Lori Deschene is the founder of Tiny Buddha and Recreate Your Life Story, an online course that helps you let go of the past and live a life you love.
Her latest book: Tiny Buddha's Gratitude Journal, which includes 15 coloring pages, is now available for purchase.