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Frances is here to help us see things as they really are instead of how we want to see them.Below, she takes us through a relationship reality check to keep your head clear at every stage of the relationship: On the first date...You don't want to fill in the blanks and start connecting the dots yourself and driving the momentum of the courtship forward.
Raise your hand if you ever fudged the facts in your mind because you really wanted to see things through rose-colored glasses with a promising guy [raises hand! Well, the fudging-of-facts bit carries on throughout a relationship, sometimes keeping us committed to the wrong guy for months (or years).
If you're just looking for sex, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term?
Lauren Frances is one of my favorite relationship experts, and she happens to focus on these particular struggles in her books and one-on-one coaching.
A guy who wants to really be in a relationship with you and is really ready for a partnership doesn't need to push like that.
Guys who want to seriously date you want to see you in person."On dates 2 and 3..."On the second and third dates, what I like to have my clients do is really pay attention to how consistent he is.