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Most importantly, they are going to have a knowledge and understanding of the most basic cornerstones of any Dominant submissive or Master slave relationship, which are Communication, Trust, Respect and Honor(honesty).
No, Dominants are not all Teddy Bears, nor are they all the image of a harsh, overbearing Viking so don't start looking at Dominants with a preconceived notion of what every Dominant or Master is like.
When in reality, few if any in the environment have any actual participation or involvement in a Dominant submissive or Power Exchange relationship.
To most that are there, it's an opportunity for "role play", it's a "game" where no one will get hurt.
If you've stumbled into a chat room, forum, or for that matter, a real life event, if you aren't comfortable there, if others tend to make you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, it's time to analyze those feelings. It may be that for whatever reason, that environment is not for you.
Don't hesitate to move on until you find the one chat room environment that you can be comfortable in.
If you heed the guidance offered on this page, I think your encounters in a slave chat environment will be much more productive.
You may be a submissive or slave, or at least think you want to be, but that doesn't make you just anyone's submissive or slave.There is no thought or consideration given to the feelings and emotions of the one(s) that happened to venture there with very valid and legitimate needs, seeking to learn, seeking acceptance, hoping to find the path to that one special power exchange relationship.There is no one way of guaranteeing that a legitimate submissive or slave won't mistakenly end up in an environment that just isn't what she thought it was, but there are some steps a submissive or slave should take, or at least consider before she sets out in search of a submissive or slave chat room or forum.Unfortunately, most of these forums don't indicate whether the environment is one strictly of role play, or if the individuals found in the chat room have a genuine interest, or participation in a power exchange relationship, nor do they distinguish between or acknowledge the different types of Power exchange relationships.), seeking to learn about or find a total power exchange (TPE) relationship, is drawn to an environment (chat room or forum) by the lure of sheer numbers of people proclaiming to be "in the lifestyle", or promises of "submissive" or "slave training".