What to know about dating older men
Also, while your older man might lack the sex drive of a 22 year-old, he will likely have the experience to put many younger men to shame.
Just as his health will possibly deteriorate, your older man’s energy levels will also drop over time.
While you want to go on a last-minute trip to Thailand, he might prefer to put the money into his pension or spend it on his children. The older you are, the more you know what you like and dislike, and the less likely you are to try new things or act in a spontaneous way.
This is not to say that you get boring as you get older, it’s just that responsibilities get in the way.
It’s generally considered that women peak sexually between 25 and 40, while men peak between 18 and 25.
While it doesn’t take a genius to work out the difference there, you should bear in mind that everyone is different.
You will probably need to be prepared to be lower on his list of priorities sometimes, even if his children are grown up. If he doesn’t, are you prepared to sacrifice your desire for children to find love?
You might be fine with this, but it’s important to consider carefully. The last thing you should do is enter the relationship thinking ‘I’ll change his mind’ – you most probably won’t and it’s a huge gamble.
These children will take up his time, whether they live with him or he spends his weekends with them.
This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.
Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.
For a long weekend away you just need to pack a bag and go, he needs to make sure his children are cared for and square things at work too.
On the plus side, you may find the stability in your life comforting and reassuring.