Wife started dating a woman
A friend once told me his test of whether he's over an ex is whether it would bother him if they were dating someone else.
Under that logic, I've never gotten over anyone in my life.
You two were a couple and to see your spouse with someone else will trigger feelings in you that may be surprising and unpleasant.
Remember what you think and what you feel can sometimes be at odds, but it’s perfectly normal to feel some jealousy and even look for things to criticize in your ex’s new partner.
Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again.
Is it possible you are uncomfortable with the idea of your ex dating because you are stuck and unable to move forward with your life?
I know I'm not alone in feeling devastated over an ex moving on.
A lot of my friends have confessed they've felt the same way, especially when they're forced to find out through social media.